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Discovering Your Life Path

Are you at a turning point in your life?

Many of us are as we head into the new year wondering whether to keep doing what we’ve been doing in the past or is it time to take the plunge and try something new and expansive?

So what’s it going to be?

One of the best ways to keep to your life’s path (even if you don’t know what it is) is to do this process…

  1. Close your eyes and take a breath
  2. Imagine yourself in 6 months time doing what you’ve been doing
  3. Continue the timeline for 1 year, 5 years, 10 years, etc
  4. Imagine yourself in 6 months time doing something different
  5. Continue the timeline for 1 year, 5 years, 10 years, etc
  6. Imagine yourself in 6 months time on your life’s path (even if you don’t know what it is)
  7. Continue the timeline as you have done in steps 3 and 5
  8. Compare all timelines and do what feels the most fun and expansive to you.

The trick with this process is to connect with the energy of your life’s path because if you are really honest most of us don’t have any idea what that looks like in reality.

We may have an idea what profession we would like to work in or what part of the world or even who we would like to spend time with, yet the more we connect with the energy in step 6, the more new and interesting opportunities open up to us.

Things that we never thought about before or never even knew existed show up unexpectedly and it is our job to recognise if the energy matches step 6.

If it does, let go of all expectations and dive right in. I remind you to let go of expectations because the first few times you connect with your life path’s energy, your reality may go a little topsy turvy. The way you think your path will go will get all curvy and you may start to question what is going on!

Everything you thought you wanted in life may not be the case at all. Yet it will be alright if you stick to following the energy. 

The previous sentence was difficult for me to do for quite a while. My cognitive mind always thought that maybe, just maybe, it knew better. And guess what, it didn’t and every path I chose would take me right back to the original choice! Talk about going around in circles.

Now it’s time to ask your higher self to download the energy of the lesson (if any) you are supposed to learn and complete it for you. This then gives you the space to choose for you. Choose your life’s path.

Trust that your life’s path will guide you to achieve more than you could imagine in your life.

Trust that your life’s path will allow you more happiness and abundance in your life.

Trust that your life’s path needs and is looking for you, just as much as you are looking for it.

The energy of your life’s path gives you the motivation you are desiring to do things that you don’t enjoy. It gets you out of bed in the morning. It gives you extra time to spend with your loved ones AND get all your work done.

The energy is there to support you, guide you and comfort you as you contribute to your life, the lives of others and the energy of the collective.

It may feel a little scary at first, but with a little support and hand holding, you will find that your life turns out better than you could ever have imagined.

Wouldn’t that be amazing?

Being surprised by your own life?

What would you do?

Who would you be?

And the funny thing is, is that the part of you scrambling for those answers is not the part that will be able to give you the answers.

It’s the part that has been keeping you stuck. The part that lives in fear and the part that thinks it knows exactly what you want. Everything you want except fulfillment and happiness.

At the moment I’m in a cafe I didn’t know existed until today in a town I didn’t know I was going to be in and writing something I didn’t plan on writing.

Yet in this moment, this is exactly where I am meant to be.

Do I know why? No.

Does it matter? No.

Am I being productive? Yes.

Am I happy? Yes.

Am I in the energy of my life’s path? Absolutely!

I’m excited as to where my life is going to take me next…

Are you coming with me? I hope so.

How To Get Past The Pain Of Infidelity

Infidelity is such a dirty word.

The betrayal, the hurt, the pain it brings up for people when they have just found out that they have been cheated on and the lingering effect it has on relationships to come.

I’ve worked with many people who have cheated and been cheated on and as they work on trusting themselves and others, they come to realise that infidelity can be a gift – but only if you allow it to be.

Let’s start with the cheaters.

To betray someone else’s trust and to cause the amount of pain to another shows you just how little they trust themselves. My understanding is that betrayal is a learned behaviour.

If you have ever cheated on someone, where in your life or your parent’s life have you or they been betrayed? I’m including your parents because of the generation impact that can be carried through your genes and being the sponge that you were as a child and picking up on your parent’s behaviour.

It could be that someone died when you were a child, after saying that they would be with you and not to worry about them. It could be that your parents got divorced – and I’m not saying that all children of divorced parents cheat. It could be that your close friend at school lied to you and you now understood that trust was not something that was important in the world. It could even be for revenge. It could be a number of different things that eroded away at your level of trust for yourself and for humanity.

I’m not asking you to condone a cheater’s behaviour, I’m simply looking at where it may have originated so that it can be let go.

Now let’s look at the cheatee.

When did you stop trusting your knowing?

Every time I ask a client who has been cheated if they knew beforehand that this was going to happen, when they tap into their knowing, they say YES!

To do this, take a deep breath and ask yourself,

“Truth, did I know that he/she was going to cheat on me when I first entered this relationship?”

“Have I learned all the lessons from this experience?”

“Is the karma complete?”

“Am I free from this cycle now?”

If the last 3 questions are a no, ask,

“Can I please learn these lessons easily, simply and gently and complete the karma now?”

And then let the question go to your higher self who will look after it for you.

Now it is time for the cheatee to begin to trust your knowing again so the pattern doesn’t continue.

Both parties can do this because at some stage the cheater has been betrayed too.

Sit in a busy shopping centre and connect with your inner knowing.

Ask your body to show you a yes and ask it to show you a no and it will respond so that you can continue to ask it questions.

Every time someone walks past you, ask your knowing,

“Can I trust this person, now and in the future?”

And then see how your body responds. Sometimes your mind will get in the way because you’ll be looking at the person and judging their looks and their energy, yet after some practice, you’ll notice the difference between your mind and your knowing.

When you get proficient at getting a response from your knowing and you can start to develop your trust levels with your friends and family. Remember though, EVERYONE lies. Even if they are little white lies or they simply don’t want to tell you something. And if you’re saying you never ever lie and you have people around you who lie, somewhere in your lives you have been just like them.

I know a hard pill to swallow, yet you wouldn’t be in this situation if you didn’t have a frequency within you to attract them.

When you ask about friends and family, trust yourself and see if you can let go of the judgement at the same time. A double whammy for you to work with.

Then the next step, when you are ready for a new relationship or to rekindle the old one, is to ask your knowing if you trust this person, now and in the future.

By asking these questions you will find that you never need to trust another person ever again. You simply trust your knowing and live your life with this source of strength within you.

An added bonus of asking these questions and developing your inner knowing is that you will stop attracting people who don’t trust themselves (the cheaters) and you can relax knowing that your relationships will be easier for you without always wondering if they are going to betray you in the future.

If you would like any extra help connecting with your inner knowing and letting go of the pain from betrayal, let me know and we can do it together.

Loving you… Loving life…

Saying Yes To You

Did you know that when you say yes to you, you say yes to everyone?

I know that may seem selfish yet when it is a yes to enhancing your life and your being, it is contagious and others will be able to say yes to their true desires.

Wouldn’t that be amazing, everyone enjoying their true desires?

Desires that enhance your life, that make your eyes shine and your heart sing. I’m not talking about egoistic wants… now that would be selfish.

Scott and I were just talking about this…

I bought a warranty for a vacuum cleaner that I thought was too expensive, yet when I checked in with my knowing it felt like a true yes to buy. The warranty was at a discount and it gave us some holiday rewards. We decided to use the holiday rewards for a weekend away that logically wasn’t at the right time due to work and other commitments, yet once again it was a yes.

While we were away, it rained and rained. The restaurant at the hotel we were staying at was closed for 1 of the 3 days and we weren’t able to do what we had planned because of the weather. However, there was an open fire…

When Scott was younger he loved watching the fire… absolutely fascinated… and when we were on our weekend away that love was rekindled.

We now have an open fire in our backyard that is giving us a lot of joy and I have a happy husband.

Sorry if that was a bit long winded but if I hadn’t trusted my knowing about buying that particular vacuum cleaner, who knows what would have happened to our relationship?

I’m joking a little because I know that there would have been other opportunities, yet why pass up on saying yes to you? What is stopping you from saying yes all the time?

When you say yes to you, you also get a chance to say no without feeling guilty.

I remember a few years ago, a friend of mine was coming over to visit and she rang at the last minute to say that she wasn’t coming. I was a little annoyed because I had rearranged my day to fit her in and her excuse was that she simply didn’t want to come over today.

I am so glad she trusted herself to yes to her because during that time that I was supposed to be spending time with her, I meditated, and during that meditation, I received an idea that expanded my life considerably! I acted on the idea immediately and it changed my life and the lives of others in ways that I could never have imagined.

Say yes to you whether someone wants you to or not.

Write down all the things that you would like to do in your life over the next few months.

Is it to go on a course? Is it to visit friends and family? Is it to experience something that you never imagined you would do?

And then write down all the reasons stopping you.

Ask yourself if these reasons are enhancing your life or diminishing it?

Are they allowing you to say yes to you?

Are you willing to say yes to you despite these reasons?

Are you willing to take action on your yeses?

Are you willing to follow your yeses to allow your desires to manifest?

Are you willing to keep saying yes when everything is showing you that it can’t possibly happen?

I have so many things on my “YES!” list that I have no idea how they are going to be realised. I simply know that if I keep following the energy of the yes, it will show up in a way that I never imagined and of course that will always be better than what I’ve planned.

All of these yeses are in your energy field.

They are there waiting for you to embody the energy and all you have to do is ask for it.

Ask for your Angels, Guides, your Higher Self and God’s help. They love helping us get what will allow us to say yes more often. They have fun with this stuff and it could be something that you could play with as well.

Have you ever played “Reach” when you’ve lost something?

I do it all the time and I do it for my yeses that are yet to appear.

Put your hands out in front of you as if someone is going to put something in them. Imagine your yes, your desire in your hands and say, “Reach”.

It is then up to you to follow the information you receive to allow your desire to come to you.

It’s almost like a game of Marco Polo where you are constantly given hot or cold messages until you reach your desire.

Start with things you know you will find, keys, purse, etc. Then move on to things that are a yes for you to manifest.

Have fun with it and let me know what you bring into your reality from your energetic world and of course if you need a little assistance, I’m always here to lend a hand.

Loving you… Loving life…

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Blame Me For Everything

What if you had someone to blame for everything that has ever happened in your life?

All the bad stuff that you think is ruining your life.

All the stuff that if it wasn’t happening, your life would be fantastic!

Well, you do… Me.

Yep. Blame me.

Blame me for the bad stuff, the ugly stuff, the hurtful stuff, the stuff that is uncomfortable.

Blame me.

Your child falls over… Rosemary’s fault.

You’re in financial ruin… Rosemary’s fault.

Your partner is in a mood… yep… Rosemary’s fault.

You can do it!

In fact, the more you blame me, the better!

You can even blame me for the good stuff, although most of you won’t do that because you think that the good stuff is worth holding on. Yet, the good, the bad, the indifferent is all made up of the same stuff (energy) and can all be thrown at my feet because it feels great!

Bring it on baby!!!!

So, now that you think I’m mildly crazy for taking the blame for everything in your life, that other person’s life, in fact, for everyone’s life, what is this all about?

When many people feel they are being blamed for something, especially if it is unjustly so, there is a resistance that can keep you stuck. It can hold the energy in place for years and have an affect on future decisions that will stop you from creating a life of fun and joy.

I remember when I was a child I would get the blame for things that I hadn’t done and it felt horrible. Why was I being punished for something I had nothing to do with?

Victim, victim, victim!

Now as an adult, I realise that the issue of blame had nothing to do with me and everything to do with them, so I’m happy to allow the energy to flow through me because that is all blame is… energy.

When I wasn’t able to receive the energy of blame, I became a right fighter. I would fight for my cause to the death. And that’s exactly what happened… I killed many relationships because I was fighting for what I believed was right.

I’m not saying for you to be a doormat and take abuse from others, simply allow the energy to flow through you easily and gently because blame rarely has anything to do with you and everything to do with the other person.

Of course, if it is an issue that you can remedy, by all means, help out. Do what you can to rectify the situation and give the other person some ease in their life.

Are you ready to let blame become a thing of the past in your relationships?

Are you willing to allow the energy of blame (and anything else) to flow through you like a gentle breeze?

Are you willing to drop your barriers, expand the love your have within your heart and be open to the energy being thrown at you?

Are you willing to feel blame as a gentle giggle?

Are you willing to realise that blame really doesn’t matter and that looking at the hurt behind the blame is more important than the blame itself?

When you are able to allow the blame to flow through you, you will find that blame rarely comes up in your world. People stop blaming you, you stop blaming people and things. You stop being a victim in your own world and that’s a really spacious place to be.

Right, wrong, good or bad, it really doesn’t matter because it is all the same energy, simply different sides of the same coin which we have judged and allowed it to have power over us.

Are you ready to take your power back?

Are you ready to be responsible for your own life?

Are you ready to blame me for EVERYTHING?

Are you ready and willing to untangle from the energy of blame, so it no longer exists in your reality?

By the way, it’s all my fault!

If you need a little help with this concept, let me know and we’ll work it out together.

Loving you… Loving life…

3 Ways To Build Your Inner Strength

 

Do you constantly feel the need to protect yourself?

When you’re feeling flat, energetically low, depressed and life isn’t flowing the way you would like it, building your inner strength can change how you feel in an instant.

Have a listen as I explain each of the 3 ways to develop your inner strength so other energies simply don’t resonate with your morphic field.

 

 

Take the time to use these 3 tools on a daily basis and you will notice a difference in your life.

  1. Superwoman/man pose (image to come)
  2. I love that, I am that
  3. Allow the Divine to support you

If you’re really low on energy, to begin with, you can imagine doing the Superwoman pose and then as your energy grows, get up and do it!

If you’re not sure how to do this yourself, come and join the Free Divine Love Activations which happen every Wednesday where the energy for love is incorporated ===> Click here.

Loving you… Loving life…

Worst Case Scenario

I’ve always been a little bit worried about how people who aren’t open to what I do would judge me.

Have you ever been concerned about other’s opinions of you?

Friends, family, acquaintances…

This would generally come up if you have some form of rejection as a core issue for you in your morphic field.

So I was at Rikka Zimmerman’s Life Transformed workshop in Los Angeles the other day (which was fabulous by the way) and I realised just how intrinsic rejection was in my field.

I knew that there was something there, yet I couldn’t put my finger on it.

This happens a lot and I see it with clients.

Core issues can be very difficult to see from your own perspective. Click To Tweet

They put themselves into areas of their life so that it will show up over and over again until they see it and allow it to be released and for many of us, we won’t know what it is until someone points it out to us and we’re ready to receive that information.

So this happened to me in the course and then later that night the people who I didn’t really want to know what I did for a living found my videos online.

And guess what happened?

I didn’t die.

I didn’t cry.

I didn’t go into the fetal position and hope that the world would open up and swallow me.

On the contrary.

I wished that I had more online for them to see.

I wished that I had opened up and allowed all my skills to assist those who need them.

I wished that I had contributed more to help others.

Yet there is no way that I could have done or been anything different at the time before the rejection was cleared out of my system.

I was simply being me.

To take a look at your core issue, take a look at some worst case scenarios that you wouldn’t want to happen in your life.

It could be that your relationship breaks down.

It could be that you lose all your money.

It could be that your personal choice gets taken away.

And you’ll notice that you keep choosing partners or situations where you’re the one that creates situations where this happens.

For example, in between being a flight attendant and a counsellor, I worked in sales… talk about rejection!

I would start off being the highest seller and then magically couldn’t make a sale to save myself.

I created the rejection.

Another example was that before meeting my gorgeous husband, I would pick men who I would think were rejecting me, but I was actually pushing them away.

Pretty cool, huh?

Now, your issue may have nothing to do with rejection and these examples may not resonate with you, yet there will be a pattern that you have created in your life that is trying to tell you something about your deliciously juicy core issue.

And this issue will have a direct effect on EVERY ASPECT OF YOUR LIFE!

So take the time and write down what sort of jobs do you gravitate to, what sort of partners do you bring into your life and how do you feel about your life in general.

And then of course, ask the magical question…

“Show me and allow me to clear the core issue that affects every aspect of my life?”

And trust that it will eventually appear and be released easily and effortlessly.

If you need some extra help with this, please know that I’m available for private consultations to be that outsider who is able to see what is difficult for most of us to see within ourselves.

Loving you… Loving life…

Moving Through Suicidal Tendancies

I love working with suicide.

Well actually, I love working with people before they actually take their lives. Although I have been known to work with those who have transitioned, but that’s a whole other post that I may or may not write about.

Suicidal thoughts are interesting to me and of course those who are having them.

Many of us who have wanted to take our lives, when asked, don’t actually want to die, they simply want the pain to go away and can’t think of any other way out – other than death.

And that’s sad… very sad…

It’s also one of the many reasons I love working with people who are in that position.

I’ve worked on a suicidal hotline, worked one on one with people who are ready to take their lives, had friends who hurt themselves physically and there were times when I have thought about ending this lifetime, if not for my beautiful cat Christie.

When working with someone who is ready to leave their life, the look on their faces (or if I’m doing a phone consult – the shift in their energy) when they realise that there is another way out of the pain is such a gift – an opening to something new, where they can move beyond the life they are now living.

Many people believe that suicide is selfish, bad, a cop out and so on…

Yet I don’t have that point of view.

In fact I don’t have a point of view about suicide.

I don’t believe it is right or wrong…

It is simply a state of stuckness where the option of choice is non existent for the person in pain.

Until of course they ask a question…

“Help?” is one of the many questions that can be asked.

It’s the one I chose and it’s one that takes the least amount of energy, yet can create the greatest amount of energetic shift.

Many people who have suicidal thoughts are empathic or Highly Sensitive People (HSP) and aren’t able to cope with life that is pummelling at them.

When I work with people with suicidal thoughts I follow the energy (as I do in every consultation) but I take it a step further and teach them how to deal with these thoughts if they ever come back.

Acknowledging the energies that are causing the pain is the first step.

As an HSP you are like an antenae picking up on all the pain in the world… in the universe! You will also pick up on good stuff too, but until you learn to adjust your frequency, you’ll be perceiving all the lower stuff first.

To help start the process, let me ask some questions…

  • Are these thoughts light or heavy?
  • Do they belong to you or someone else?
  • How many energies are in or around your body now?
  • Where are you? Inside or outside your body?
  • How many times have you lived?
  • How many times have you taken your life?

And the questions will continue in the direction that the energy takes us…

The process tends to get a bit esoteric, however, when you start to tap into your inner knowing (which is what these questions will help you do), you’ll find that you’ll start to uncover the reason why you are feeling this way and how to transform the pain into something else.

HSPs are not broken, they just feel that way most of the time... Click To Tweet

We’re just a little different from many of the population which is why when the pain becomes too much it may seem easier to leave than find another solution.

I have used this technique on many, many clients who are ready to leave this lifetime and who are now living happy, productive lives.

I happen to be one of them!

If you or someone else you know have suicidal thoughts, please share this post or contact me for an immediate consultation.

No one needs to be in this much pain and the sooner it lifts the better life is for everyone.

Loving you… Loving life…

Integrating Relationship Lessons Easily

As we navigate the world of relationships, lessons come up on a regular basis.

Some of them are easy.

Some of them slap us around.

And some of them bite us in the bum!

I remember going through the relationship roller coaster in my 20s and 30s and thinking,

“I thought I’d learned that lesson already!”

And yet here it was again happening right in front of my face!

What was I, a slow learner?

I would date the same guy in a different body, over and over and over again.

Yes, my friends… an extremely slow learner.

After many bottles of flower essences and many more tears, I finally heard a gem of wisdom that clicked for me.

It came from an Access Consciousness class, and although most of the modality doesn’t resonate with me, there are some pieces of gold that work very well indeed.

Are you ready for this nugget?

Let me preface it by asking you,

I wonder how many lifetimes we have lived? Click To Tweet

Probably thousands, even tens of thousands and possibly even hundreds of thousands… who really knows?

And it doesn’t really matter about the exact number as we’re working with the energy of the possibility.

So, let’s assume that we’ve lived many lifetimes and had an enormous amount of experiences and we’ve been nice and naughty, happy and sad, rich and poor, single, married, widowed, divorced, been abused, been the abuser, been killed, been the killer… and you get the idea.

We’ve been and done everything!

So, when someone is pushing your buttons, especially when you’re in a relationship with them, you have an energetic frequency that resonates with that behaviour.

Yep, it’s right there in your morphic field.

(I know this because I’ve muscle tested many clients and it shows up every time)

Which means that you’ve been there and done exactly what this person is “doing” to you right now!

Crazy, isn’t it?

So how do you shift the energy so that you no longer resonate with it?

Easy…

You say to yourself,

“Everywhere I’ve been there and everywhere I’ve done that.”

Breathe and let it go…

What this does is it allows you to energetically put yourself in the other person’s shoes and have empathy for them even if you don’t condone their behaviour.

If someone is judging you, thank them because they are doing you a huge favour by allowing you to choose something different.

You have the power to break this cycle.

You have the power to change the frequency.

You have the power to bring it back to love.

No one can do anything to you that you haven’t already done yourself.

If this wasn’t the case then, you wouldn’t resonate with it and it wouldn’t be happening in your reality.

So if you’re in a relationship and your partner is disrespecting you, just think… hmmm… at some stage in many of my hundreds of thousands of lifetimes, I have disrespected someone.

Wow! Can I let that go now?

Could I?

Would I?

When? Now? Great!

There is no drama or blame or judgement about the crazy, stupid or even horrible things we have done in other lives. We have no control over them. They are simply experiences.

That’s it!

And they are experiences that we no longer wish to have.

If you need a little extra help with dating the same person in a different body, stay tuned because I have a fabulous program coming up.

In the meantime, book your consultation with me today.

Loving you… Loving life…

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Catching Up In Life

Have you ever felt like you’ve lost time?

I have over the past 2 weeks and now I feel so far behind in everything I had planned.

Long story short I gave myself a concussion and have been in bed for the past 2 weeks with a huge headache AND my darling husband banned all devices from the room.

Talk about trauma!

And I don’t mean the headache 😉

These are the things I was going to do during the last 2 weeks…

  • I had just started running instead of walking the dogs every day and I was going to continue.
  • I was in a 30 days of content challenge with Learn to Blog and I was really enjoying it.
  • I was going to design our kitchen for our new house.
  • I was creating a new free program for all of you to enjoy.

So instead of trying to catch up and stress myself out, I’m living from now.

If I thought about all the things that I was supposed to do in my business from the last 2 weeks I would probably have an anxiety attack and that’s not the most productive way to spend time.

I’m choosing flow.

I’m asking questions about what to do first.

I have put a list of intentions in place and I am asking for help (from sources unknown).

When the unexpected happens in your life and messes with your plans there are a couple of things you can do

  1. Start from where you are
  2. Start from where you are and if you have time do a little catch up
  3. Start from where you left off and allow it to be in the here and now, not from the past
  4. Start from where you left off and get stressed because you will be working from the past and not from the now.

At this point I’ll probably be doing a little bit of 2 and some of 3 depending on the tasks.

The trick is to pretend like you haven’t missed any time at all. Click To Tweet

You are here.

You are in the present time.

You are working to the best of your ability.

It wasn’t your fault that you got hit on the head/you messed up your diet/you didn’t go to the gym cos you were lazy/your life got turned upside down or any other situation that may have occurred.

However, it is your responsibility with how you get back on track at this point in time.

This process works really well when you fall off the bandwagon for any target you are trying to achieve.

The trick is to remember not to beat yourself up about the time you have lost.

What you should have done.

What you could have done.

What you didn’t do.

Start now. Start in the present.

And as my headache is coming back I’m going to use some amazing Renu28 and hop off this computer for a little while.

If you need some help with staying present, book your appointment with me today and let’s stay in the now!

Loving you… Loving life…

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