Is There Such A Thing As A Soulmate?

I often get the question from clients searching for love – for their soulmate.

I wonder…

Maybe yes, maybe no…

What do you think?

Over the years of being in and out of relationships searching for that elusive man, I believed that there was a soulmate for me.

Yet on my wedding day of all days, I didn’t believe I was marrying my soulmate.

A little confusing? Yeh, I think so too!

After years of personal searching and many, many clients asking this question, I’ve come to the realisation that it’s our definition of soulmates that need to be looked at.

Many of us believe that a soulmate is someone who we simply can’t live without even if their actions make us cry every day.

Others believe that soulmates will be the one who will make us feel complete and that life will fall into place as soon as we are together.

So, what do you believe?

Truth… is what you believe true?

Or is it a lie for you?

Does your belief make you feel heavy or does it feel light and easy?

My take on this is that there are souls (people) who come to you over the course of your life and you can choose to be with them or not.

These souls are in your life to allow you to learn something, choose something and even bring more love into your life from the choices you make about the relationship.

These souls also have the same frequency or energetic patterns as whatever it is that you need to resolve within you.

They are a gift to you if you choose to love you.

So, what happens if one of you feels the connection and the other doesn’t?

Are you willing to hang around for the rest of your life to see if they are going to wake up and realise you’re the one for them?

Or are there others who are willing to enjoy your company?

Maybe you think that you have a past life connection with them, so that means that they are the one for you…

What if we looked at this logically?

How many people have you met this lifetime?

Hundreds, thousands, hundreds of thousands?

And how many lifetimes have you had, on this planet and on others?

So with that thinking, the importance of meeting in another lifetime is less significant than the vibrational frequency you are connecting with.

I’m not really answering the question because by asking all these questions I’m opening you up to another possibility.

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  • What if you could give up your idea of what a soulmate can and can not do for you?
  • What if you never ended up with your soulmate?
  • What if you were happy without your soulmate?
  • What if soulmates simply don’t exist?

Are you ready to let go of all your beliefs around soulmates?

  • What they are and what they are not?
  • Would you?
  • When?
  • Now?


Now that we’ve done that, you’re on the road to recognise a partner who will love you and treat you with respect that only a true soulmate will do.

And that’s how I now know that my soulmate for this moment in time is sitting in the room next to me watching the cricket.

Because on my wedding day, I was still searching for my elusive soulmate and when I let go of the search, I recognised him as my husband.

Don’t stay in a relationship that is wrong for you by using the soulmate excuse and don’t run away from a relationship because you don’t think they are your soulmate.

My wish for you is a loving relationship with the person who makes your heart smile.

And of course if you need a little extra help, book your consultation with me and we’ll work on finding your soulmate together.

Loving you… Loving life…

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Rosemary Davey

Rosemary Davey lives with her husband Scott and her fur babies in Western Australia. She has a background in Mind Body Medicine and Holistic Counselling and uses tools and techniques in her programs to enhance the relationships in your life.

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